Thursday, January 31, 2013

Men-ipulation, A memoir of Addiction and Recovery by Denise Domning and Monica Sarli










2 Stars


I’m a big fan of underdog stories.  I’m anxious when the story begins to see how downtrodden the main character is while I silently think about how grateful I am that I’m not in the same position.  I get excited when the underdog begins his upward movement towards victory.  The turning point is the POINT of an underdog story and it was lost in this book. 
Monica’s story started out well.  I felt anxious as I was trying to figure out how she and her husband were going to make it out of the hell hole they were in.  By the time Monica had recovered I realized that the turning point passed me by. 
I did like the main characters.  I wanted Monica to succeed and Steve’s parents to be proud of their son and I wanted Steve to be ok.  I wanted them to live a happy prosperous life, but at the end, I just felt blah. 

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

Nickel and Dimed: On (Not) Getting By in America by Barbara Ehreneich











1 Star

I joined a new book club that is closer to my home and this was the first book.  Interesting title, I do have a degree in Sociology, hmmm.  Looked up the author – oh no.  Wikipedia says, [she] “is an American Feminist, democratic socialist, and political activist who describes herself as “a myth buster by trade”’.  “Where is your open mind?” I ask myself.  I’m a liberal conservative by my own definition.  I live conservatively but don’t feel I have the right to push my ideals on others.  Everyone says that, right?  So I decided that I was going to read the book and I was going to go to the book club and see what I was missing.  I am open to the fact I may be wrong and by living the life I do (I’m not hungry, am employed, own my own home, and have medical insurance) that I may be biased. 
I grab a glass of wine, my favorite reading blanket (doesn’t everyone own one?) and settle down to see what Ms Ehreneich can teach me.  Her writing flows and is easy to read.  She tells a good story, if it were a story.  Ms Ehreneich starts with explaining her experiment and the rules.  She is to go out to US cities and see if she can make enough money to survive based on minimum wage, more or less.  She explains that though she is doing this there are limits.  She will have a car, being homeless is not an option, etc.  Ok, I’m fine with that. 
She looks for jobs and housing and becomes a waitress and begins telling the stories of her coworkers. I like her coworkers.  They are portrayed as hardworking people just trying to get by.  Then Ms Ehreneich begins to describe management.  Their portrayals are not nearly as likeable.   I keep reading.  I keep disagreeing.  The author is a PhD, right?  This stuff is scary to me.  Below are the statements from the book that made me decide that perhaps this book club was not for me and that though I respect Ms Ehreneich’s right to voice her opinion I disagree with her wholeheartedly.  Let me be clear, I do agree that there is a group of workers that are living below the poverty level and have full-time jobs.  This is what the story is supposed to be about, but isn’t.  It is a story about the struggle between the elitist and the proletariats. The struggle can be summarized simply but it is not a simple struggle.  I do not agree with Ms Ehreneich’s statements below.
·         Page 99, “True, I don’t look so good by the end of the day and probably smell like eau de toilet and sweat, but it’s the brilliant green-and yellow uniform that gives me away, like prison clothes on a fugitive.  Maybe, it occurs to me, I’m getting a tiny glimpse of what it would be like to be black.”
·         Page 120, “But warnings about the heat and the allergies put me off, not to mention my worry that the Latinos might be hogging all the crap jobs and substandard housing for themselves, as they so often do.”
·         Page 184, this statement is in reference to Wal-Mart and its worker who are called “associates”. “After all, you’d need  a lot stronger word than dysfunctional to describe a family where a few people get to eat at the table while the rest—the “associates” and all the dark-skinned seamstresses and factory workers worldwide who make the things we sell—lick up the drippings from the floor:  psychotic would be closer to the mark.”
·         Page 190, “Probably in part because of advertising by roughly $2 billion drug-testing industry, but I suspect that the demeaning effect of testing may also hold some attraction for employers.”
·         Page 195, ...”traits deemed essential to job readiness:  punctuality, cleanliness, cheerfulness, obedience.  These are the qualities that welfare-to-work job-training programs often seek to inculcate, though I suspect that most welfare recipients already possess them, or would if their child care and transportation problems were solved.”
·         Page 211, “My guess is that the indignities imposed on so many low-wage workers—the drug tests, the constant surveillance, being “reamed out” by managers—are part of what keeps wages low.”
·         Page 212, “For reasons that have more to do with class—and often racial—prejudice than with actual experience, they tend to fear and distrust the category of people from which they recruit their workers.  Hence the perceived need for repressive management and intrusive measures like drug and personality testing.”
I didn’t like the book; if you are on the far-left I think you will like it.

Thursday, January 24, 2013

Bond Girl, by Erin Duffy






3 stars
I’ve read a ton of books like this one, but I still love them.  Alex Garrett is a young girl that dreams of working on Wall Street after visiting her Dad’s work as an investment banker.  She is smart, attractive and a go-getter! 
Alex faces the traditional problems women go through moving from college to the work world.  She is determined to make her mark in a male-driven profession.  The men she deals with are funny and helpful while the woman that Alex thinks will help her is the only person that is not willing to help Alex.
Everything Alex faces from spending a thousand dollars on a cheese wheel to walking in on a slumber party in the conference room will make you laugh and cheer her on.  You watch Alex grow as is a very capable worker (except when reading her horoscope) but ignores the signs when it comes to romance.  I don’t know a woman that hasn’t done this.  In the end, Alex figures out what is important to her and what she is willing to do to achieve her dream.

Friday, October 19, 2012

The Good Lawyer by Thomas Benigno










3.5 Stars

The Good Lawyer begins with the main character, Nick Mannino, winning a case defending a guilty man of rape.  He is looking back and thinking about the victim Dina Rios, his guilt for letting a guilty person go free.  This happens when he is going to see potential client that is charged with molestation of three boys.  Nick has another case, “The Spiderman” that is another rape case and he takes on as a favor. 
Nick works for Legal Aid, has a mobster uncle, a single mother and a rich girlfriend that is the Assistant District Attorney in lower Manhattan.  There are enough twists, action and relationship drama to appeal to most.  The subject is dark dealing with AIDs, child molestation and rape.  Oh, there is a religious element thrown in the mix too, just for fun.
I liked the book and after I read it I thought about it a bit deeper and started to see more to the story than just basic story.  The cases play against each other.  They deal with stereotypes and what is generally accepted as upstanding behavior and what is not.  I’m known to over analyze, but Mr. Benigno has something to say in this book.  I liked the message.

Tuesday, October 9, 2012

A Scattered Life by Karen McQuestion






      4 stars
The books I read seem to go from a warm and cozy feel good book to mystery, violence and sometime scary books.  I’m not sure why.   I put Karen McQuestion’s A Scattered Life on my Amazon Wish list in March of 2011 and read it last month.     I consistently seem drawn to books that have main characters that discover something.  If it is a “girly” book it is generally learning something about herself or her life.  Skyla, the main character, is no different.  She is a loner and the description of her life and thoughts at the beginning of the book made me wonder what it would be like to have a life without a family; a base to ground you and keep you from simply floating away.  I come from a fairly large family and the first time I was alone in my house I was seventeen years old and I think I was alone for 30 minutes.  Obviously, I haven’t a clue what not having a family is like at all.
The book centers around the female characters.  Skyla, a spirited woman that has married Thomas, the most serious, stable and unexciting man I could possibly imagine.  Roxanne, an unorganized maternal mother of five small children and still wanting more.  Finally, Audrey, Skyla’s mother-in-law, is a bit June Cleaverish and very judgmental.  The roles these different women play in each other’s lives is portrayed differently than you might expect.  Support, unconditional love and the ability to realize that “most people have everything they need to be happy” if they just open their eyes and look is the book’s premise.

Friday, October 5, 2012

Trinity Game by Sean Chercover






    3 stars
This book sounded interesting to me right from the start.  As I’ve grown older I’ve become increasingly interested in Christian claims and truths.  My main conflict with most groups is there is always an outsider and I wanted to see if The Trinity Games addressed any of human flaws of the Catholic Church.  I’m not sure why I thought that this book was the answer to all of my many questions.
Daniel Byrne works for the Devil’s Advocate, a secret organization within the Vatican.  OOOO, now you are talking.  Daniel is looking for a miracle; literally, looking for miracles.  Though his 10-year search has taken him across the world he has not validated one miracle.  It is suggested to Daniel that perhaps he needs to work on his faith.  That maybe the reason he researches miracles is because he is looking for proof that God exists.  Of course this is going to change now that his next case is investigating his uncle, an TV evangelist. 
Daniel was raise by his uncle, Tim Trinity, and ran away in his teens because Tim is a fraud.  Tim doesn’t believe, never did believe.  Now he is talking in tongues and predicting the future…accurately.  This makes Tim very unpopular and the action begins.  During the course of the book trust is broken, new relationships develop and we are told that God only has one rule, “Treat others as you would like to be treated.”  Didn’t we learn that in kindergarten?
It wasn’t what I expected and began to become predictable as the book progressed, but not a bad read and was entertaining. 

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Orange is the New Black by Piper Kerman

2.5 stars

This book is a memoir of Piper Kerman.  I read this book for one of my book clubs and I was enjoying the book through about the sixth or seventh chapter.  There are eighteen chapters in all.  Piper’s story starts with her being a rebel as a college graduate trying to find her way without conforming to the “path most traveled”.  I’m unsure how many people go through this process, but I did.  I went to college right out of high school and felt “alone” and out of place somehow.  I struggled, while listening to Whitesnake’s “Here I go again”; yes, I graduated from high school in the 80s.  Piper took a path most do not.  She followed her girlfriend around the world and became involved in drug trafficking.  Remember when you parents told you that there are consequences for all of your actions?  Well, Piper found this to be true even if it was 10 years later that she had to pay for her part in the crimes she committed.
I enjoyed the first chapters and became less and less engaged as the book went on for several reasons.  First, Piper began to preach to me about everything that is wrong with our correctional facilities.  I’m a liberal conservative (I know it sounds like an oxymoron) and I do not agree with government programs, in general, and I do not agree that people in prison should receive more than law-abiding citizens do.  I do not think that prison is where people are sent to become better, but to be punished for something they have done.  It isn’t perfect, but I can’t think of anything that is.  Second, Piper seemed to move from a strong and opinionated person to a kind of mushy person.  Heck, on second thought, I guess most of us would become somewhat mushy spending a year in a prison.  She did appreciate her relationships more and realize that she wasn’t alone in the world.